Hey! I don't want you to pick which Marty or something, but I play him over at mylittlejamjar and crux_fleet. Both games have overarching plots and allow CRAUs. The playerbases are also super chill and don't mind backstagging at all.

MyLittleJamjar is, as the name suggests, a My Little Pony-based game, it's not very required for you to be into the show though, I mean I've only watched the pilot. There's going to be forced "ponification" just as a note (although you don't have to be a pony, for example Marty here's a dragon in the game). I've only been here for for a couple of months but the mods are really cool and great with doing plots so far! (And Marty would use someone to keep him from accidentally ending up as a baker or something)

Crux Fleet is a much newer game, so I probably won't be as good describing it. It's pretty much like a Star Wars/Star Trek type space game though. The mods are really friendly and it shows a lot of promise! Plus there are a lot of job options for the game so Doc doesn't even have to give up being a scientist!

(Also neither of them have required sex or memory losses, so that's always a plus)