It would be super awesome if you could consider paradisa for your Homestuck (if not, any other) characters! I play Vriska there and there is also a Nepeta. We are both pretty active to begin with and would help you acclimate to the game!

Paradisa averages out at a medium pace, has a network in the form of magical journals, and is community-based. It ranges anywhere from fantasy to slice of life to darker aspects depending on the plots at any given time. If you have any questions about the game, please let me know as I am a mod over there!