Naminé, you say? I'd like to recommend tushanshu to you! We're more slow-medium in terms of pace, heavily backtag inclined, and have both Aqua and Xion in game. There's no power nerfing, and we've got a pretty light AC.

There are occasional horror elements to some of the more serious plots, but it's definitely not a horror game by any stretch. We've recently undergone a setting reboot so the focus is on characters having real, tangible impact on the world in different ways (there's politics, black market, etc). We also have a regular event schedule with an itinerary posted at the start of every month and includes all the major events in that time, but with room for downtime in between; here's the one for March as an example.